Do unto....

I've been really trying to be kind. But it's really starting to piss me off when people... especially those I'm "close" to expect me to give where they won't.

SO, let me be very clear:

If you wouldn't do it for me (or my family), I (we) won't do it for you!

If I invite you up for an event, you don't get to pick a different date.... unless you'd do it for me, I won't be rearranging dates and plans for you.

If you wouldn't make an exception for me, I won't make an exception for you.

And if you won't support my business, I won't support yours.