Today's Quote

“As parents, we should remember that our lives may be the book from the family library which the children most treasure. Are our examples worthy of emulation? Do we live in such a way that a son or a daughter may say, ‘I want to follow my dad,’ or ‘I want to be like my mother’? Unlike the book on the library shelf, the covers of which shield its contents, our lives cannot be closed. Parents, we truly are an open book in the library of learning of our homes.” Thomas S Monson

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Born in the Year of the Horse.... Oh it fits :)

The Horse



Exciting and extroverted, vivid and animated, the Horse is the life of any party he attends. He is bursting with energy, always looking for the next place to kick up his heels and hang loose. He entertains friends and strangers alike with his humor and appeal.

Years of the Horse

Horse Years are seventh in the cycle, following the Snake Years, and recur every twelfth year. The Chinese New Year does not fall on a specific date, so it is essential to check the calendar to find the exact date on which each Horse Year actually begins.

1906*1918*1930*1942*1954*1966*1978*1990*2002

THE SIGN OF THE HORSE

Horse people are extemporaneous and quick-witted. They are quite intelligent and use their practicality to their advantage in their business and personal lives. Their sharpness makes them quick to pick up new skills and are able to handle many tasks at one time. However, this ambition can be harmful because Horse people often don’t finish what they start for fear of missing out on the next big challenge.

Horses are trustworthy, friendly and open-minded. They are good friends to have and will always be honest with you. Although they are good confidants, Horse people do enjoy their alone time and are usually independent people. They can struggle with obstinance and self-centeredness, which can lead to a flare of the temper if they don’t get their way. Usually, after an episode or temper-tantrum a Horse can feel remorse, yet not all people will be able to forgive their reaction.

HORSE FACTS:

People born in the Year of the Horse share certain characteristics. The Horse Sign is an abbreviated way of characterizing that individual’s personality. Following are features associated with the Sign of the Horse.

Seventh in order, Chinese name—MA, sign of enthusiasm and elegance

Hour—11am-12:59pm Month—June

Western Counterpart—Gemini

CHARACTERISTICS

Self-reliant, Joyful, Outgoing, Sophisticated, Greedy, Resilient, Arrogant



IN YOUR ELEMENT

The characteristics of the Horse are tempered by one of the five Chinese elements of Metal, Water, Wood, Fire and Earth overlaying a 5-year cycle of characteristics on the original 12-year cycle.




THE EARTH HORSE 1918 AND 1978

Earth Horses are able to see situations from all angles and corners. They are relatively easygoing, preferring to determine each pro and con before making a final decision. Earth Horses work hard to accomplish goals they have set and would rather take longer to do an outstanding job than to work shorter and shave a little quality. They have great senses of humor and are extremely adaptable in most instances.



HEALTH AND HABITAT

HEALTH

When concerning health issues, Horses exuberate a strength known only by the animal they are shaped after. Horse people are usually quite healthy people, perhaps due to their positivity, perhaps due to their athleticism. They get a lot of exercise and love to be out in the air and open spaces. If they can’t be outside hey begin to feel run down and out of their element. Horses must be careful to resist the pressures of alcohol and nicotine that often suck them in in times of despair or stress.

AT HOME WITH THE HORSE

Horses love company and therefore will always welcome visitors in for a hearty chat or a wholesome meal. As aforementioned, Horses don’t always finish what they start, especially if something more exciting came along, so there are likely to be various unfinished projects in their homes. In addition, there may be a few dirty dishes in the sink or a couple of unwashed loads of laundry, as housework and chores aren’t the Horse’s forte. They fill their homes with autumn colors such as gold and orange and create an atmosphere that is both comfortable and beautiful.

CAREER AND FINANCE

THE HORSE AT WORK

Their willingness to try anything and their ability to pick up new skills with ease makes Horses suitable for most any careers they choose to tackle. However, they may reconsider if taking orders or following strict routines are involved. They are people persons and enjoy occupations that allow them to interact with other people. Their need to be independent and self-reliant makes them crave positions of power and they are well-suited for careers in the field of communications. Horses are smart, fabulous speakers who have a gift for getting through to other people.

MONEY AND THE HORSE

Horses don’t think much about money. When they have it, they spend it. When they run out, they make more. Money does not constitute a Horse’s happiness or well-being. He feels it is only icing on the cake to have some and would rather buy fun things than hoard it or save it. His philosophy? You can’t take it with you.

HORSE CAREERS

Those born in the Year of the Horse share the same kinds of goals and objectives in life. The occupations best sited for the Horse are listed below:

HORSES MAKE EXCELLENT:

Language teachers

Translators

Journalists

Publicists

Bartenders

Pilots

Performers

Librarians

Tour operators

Sales representatives

Information technologists



CONGENIAL BUSINESS PARTNERS

Whether Horses are compatible with their business partners depends on whether their signs are harmonious or antagonistic to those of their business partner. Considering the congruity of their own characters and the characters of their business partners can also be very useful.

Horses ruled by Benefit From Are Antagonistic to

Metal Earth Sheep Fire Snakes

Water Metal Dogs Earth Pigs

Wood Water Roosters Metal Rats

Fire Wood Horses Water Rabbits

Earth Fire Tigers Wood Monkeys



LIKES AND DISLIKES

Since Horses are born under the same Animal Sign, they often share likes and dislikes. Following are similar likes and dislikes of the Horse personality.

Color Preference: Orange

Gems and Stones: Amethyst, Turquoise, Topaz

Suitable Gifts: Kite, compass, cellular phone, pedicure set, camera

Hobbies and Pastimes: Horse back riding, theater, playing instruments, flying model airplanes

Horses dislike: People who ignore them, being stuck in a situation, envious people, feeling dependent

THE HORSE ON VACATION

People born in the Year of the Horse enjoy traveling. They like to take off spontaneously. Horses like to take active vacations, preferring to camp, ski and hike rather than to sit on the beach in the sun all day. Their getaways usually include a cultural event such as a musical or a festival, as Horses like to be entertained.

FRIENDS AND ENEMIES

Horses generally seek the company of others and do not like being alone for any particular amount of time. Horses enjoy group activities and despite their competitive nature, like to be a part of the team rather than the captain of it. Horse people don’t have trouble making friends and often meet many in the various clubs and organizations they belong to.

Compatible Friends

Best Friends: Tigers and Dogs

Mortal Enemy: Rats

HORSE PARENTS AND BABIES

Horses are notorious for their ability to do several things at one time. They can carry on a conversation, watch the news, fold the laundry and watch the kids, all at once. These abilities certainly come in handy when raising a child. Horse parents work very hard to make sure their children are intellectually and creatively stimulated and to make sure they depend only on themselves when problem-solving or figuring something out. They feel strongly that children should be independent and should be taught basic principles that will enable them to depend more on themselves than on anyone else. If Horse parents are not careful, this very tenet may case them to appear cool, unsentimental parents concerned more with helping themselves than with helping their children.

HORSE INFANT AND CHILD

Horse children are chatty! At an early age these kids begin gurgling and "talking" to themselves. They love to hear their own voice and so will babble for hours without saying anything at all. Eventually, these children will make great language scholars who will excel at communications. Horse children are as independent as possible and will fight for their rights if they feel they’ve been wronged. They will also rebel if they feel justice has not been served.

HORSE PARENT/CHILD KINSHIPS

Some parents immediately click with their children and others find they will never have a close relationship no matter how hard they try to make it happen. Following are compatibility ratings between Horse parents and their children.

Horses with Under the same roof Compatibility Rating

Rat different aspirations *

Ox so-so **

Tiger great! ****

Rabbit differing opinions **

Dragon A lot of energy ***

Snake Gets better with age ***

Horse too independent **

Sheep mutual respect and understanding ****

Monkey shared responsibility ***

Rooster divergent paths *

Dog friendly **

Pig content ***

*uphill struggle **some complications ***easy bonding ****on the same wavelength

LOVERS AND SPOUSES

THE HORSE LOVER

Horse lovers are eternally young at heart. They sail through life on a whim, spontaneous and open-minded waiting for the next big adventure. Horse lovers are charming and affectionate. They are inspiring with their imagination and vigor, their intellect and wit. They make you want to be around them and thus hardly have problems securing Saturday night dates.

MARRIAGE

Horses are energetic spouses who fall in love quite rapidly. Along with their spontaneity comes a bit of impatience and they demonstrate that when they meet someone they want to be involved with. They throw all of themselves into a relationship, sometimes losing tiny bits and pieces of themselves along the way. However, a light at the end of the tunnel: in adulthood Horses are more stable and thus their adult relationships are more successful.



THE HORSE LOVE PARTNER

Horses live their lives in full swing. They have boundless energy and spend more time on the go than they do at home. Chinese horoscopes are very specific about which partnerships have the potential to be successful in love and in business. Yet, though destiny can point us in the right direction, we must still make all efforts to maintain loving relationships. Following is a brief description of how a Horse will affect a relationship with other Animal Signs.

PARTNERS IN LOVE

Horse*Rat

Not much going for you.

Horse*Ox

Decent business partners, but lousy lovers.

Horse*Tiger

Both of you love adventure so it should be a happy partnership.

Horse*Rabbit

You might argue, but you enjoy each other’s company.

Horse*Dragon

Sexually charged!

Horse*Snake

You have different opinions that will be hard to swallow.

Horse*Horse

Both of you are very opinionated and independent so it may be hard to find common ground.

Horse*Sheep

Love at first sight becomes life long love.

Horse*Monkey

Better suited to be friends than to be lovers.

Horse*Rooster

You have a few conflicting points of vies but enough staying power to make a great relationship.

Horse*Dog

You have a successful relationship on the horizon.

Horse*Pig

Both of you are laid back and full of energy, but there’s no one to make sure things keep running smoothly.

Love Partners at a Glance

Horses with Tips on Togetherness Compatibility

Rat unstable *

Ox argumentative *

Tiger lusty and sexy! ****

Rabbit hard, but you can do it **

Dragon sexual attraction ***

Snake you can work it out **

Horse short-term passion **

Sheep very compatible ****

Monkey Friends, yes Lovers, no **

Rooster your arguments make it hard ***

Dog go for it! ****

Pig fairly unrealistic **

*dispute **keep working at it ***intense sexual attraction ****angelic



EAST MEETS WEST



LIBRAN HORSE

Libran Horses depend greatly on their friends. Their charm and wit make them A-list party guests. They are sociable and fun loving and generate high demand when invitations go out.


Sunday, February 10, 2013

I Feel Inspired.... Thank YOU!

I am so excited. I don't believe in getting caught in slump. I know they happen. But I don't like the way they feel and will scurry to unslump myself as fast as possible.

I get excited when God sees this need in me, and sends people and ideas my way that will help with this, and helps My Family to be better.


2 resources are to thank today for my feeling inspired.

1. Ginger introduced me to Baby Wearing. It's something I see now that I have always leaned towards. I just didn't realize that I had so many options for doing it well. I have used a Snuggli since Elizabeth was a newborn. And lately have been using our hiking back pack. Which has just become too heavy as Bella has grown. And now, I know what a Mei Tai is. And I LOVE the difference. And Bella loves the difference!!! She has always liked to be worn. When we put her in the hiking back pack, she does amazing. But she has NEVER cared for the crotch dangling of the Snuggli.

I'm also sooo grateful to have become educated on topics like Circumcision. And though I have to be ok with the choice I made to have Jacob Circumcised (and am INCREDIBLY grateful that in general, it seems to have gone fine (no complications excessive trauma)), since there is NOTHING I can do about it, I KNOW that should I ever have another son, I will NOT make the same choice. After talking to Ginger about it, my favorite thought to explain this is that "You wouldn't remove an eyelid."

It's time to get educated, people. Thank you Ginger for being so strong and educating people. Ignorance is no longer an acceptable excuse.... it can cause great damage to someone you would give your life to protect.

2. A Blog I follow. Josh Weed posted this and it was very inspiring to me. There are 2 main parts that stand out.

a) He talks about how he has never felt like he fits in with other males. That he is not sure if that is why he is gay, or if he feels that way BECAUSE he is gay. This spoke to me. I often feel like an outsider in the Female community. However, I am NOT gay. And I am very happy to BE female. So there is no confused sexuality here. I could just relate to his feelings of being an outsider where he SHOULD fit in.

b) As a Gay Male, who wanted to serve an LDS Mission, he had to be open about the fact that he experienced same sex attraction in order to feel good about his choice to be in that situation. And the Missionary Department notated on his papers that there was some concern about sending him to be with other males in a companionship situation for 2 years. But that the Apostle who made the "call" on whether and where he should serve ignored this advice and Josh is so grateful for that inspired decision.

This TOTALLY was faith building to me. To KNOW that the Apostles I have looked to my whole life as divinely inspired, really prove that!

I AM afraid to die

I do NOT like the idea of death. Mainly because I see it as an un necessary inconvenience. Our bodies die when they no longer function properly. With a properly functioning body, you CAN live over a century. So WHY would I want anything less? I L O V E life. I L O V E the things and people and circumstances (most of the time) that I HAVE in my life. so, through researching, I have discovered a list of ingredients that can keep a body and it's organ in proper functioning condition so that death does not come any sooner than necessary. I don't have a lot of time right now, so I will make a quick list, and explain more later:


(Oils and herbs are absolutely essential in a person's diet and medicinal use.)

Oregano
Lemon
Lime
Raspberry
Milk Thistle
Turmeric
Iodine (found in sea vegetables like kelp, milk, and eggs)
Avocados
Cinnamon
Peppers (black, cayenne)
Honey

ALL of these help with with cancer, diabetes, and metabolizing nutrients


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